[Infowarrior] - Press, media, politicians overhype Web safety issues

[Richard Forno]

The Net is a circuit of safety concerns

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By Janet Kornblum, USA TODAY

If you watch TV or read the news, you know sexual predators hang out on the
Internet, looking for underage victims.

Dateline NBC's "To Catch a Predator" features men being lured by the promise
of meeting underage girls. Several state attorneys general recently have
called on social-networking sites MySpace and Facebook to ban registered sex
offenders and make their sites safer. Newspapers have been filled with
stories about the dangers children face when they post too much personal
information. And victims have testified recently at congressional hearings.

Some worry that parents are falling victim to "predator panic" and
overreacting to unlikely dangers, unintentionally turning children off to
safety messages altogether.

"One of the misunderstandings that we think is widespread is that what sex
offenders are doing is picking out kids (online) and stalking them and
deceiving them and abducting them and raping them," says David Finkelhor,
director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of
New Hampshire.

"That's not what's going on."

Abductions by strangers are so rare that many experts can't name a single
case in which a predator attacked after only seeing a child's profile
online.

'Grooming' their victims

In most cases, predators seek out vulnerable teens ‹ those who post sexually
suggestive pictures of themselves, talk about sex online or frequent places
where hook-ups are made, Finkelhor says. They spend weeks, even months,
forging a relationship and gaining the teens' trust.

Usually, those who become victims eventually agree to meet the perpetrator
face to face; often they know that the person they're meeting is older. But
by the time they meet him (usually it's a man), they often think they are in
love. It's a process called "grooming," Finkelhor says.

"It's the kids who respond to somebody and start talking about sex that puts
them at risk ‹ or kids who use sites to communicate with lots of people they
don't know, or put very sexualized images online," he says.

The Internet allows predators "to form supportive relationships with
emotionally vulnerable teens," says Nancy Willard, author of Cyber-Safe
Kids, Cyber-Savvy Teens: Helping Young People Learn to Use the Internet
Safely and Responsibly.

Though there are no comprehensive national annual figures on Internet crimes
against children, Finkelhor says, overall sex crimes against children are
down, with the notable exception of child pornography. Sexual abuse cases
were down 51% from 1990 to 2005 ‹ from 22.8 per 10,000 to 11.3 per 10,000
children, he says.

Feeling safe doesn't make it so

Studies show that most teens feel relatively safe online. A Pew Internet &
American Life Project report last month showed that though children,
especially girls, who posted pictures of themselves on social networks were
more likely to be contacted by strangers, only 7% of online teens said they
had ever had an interaction with a stranger that made them feel scared or
uncomfortable.

And a report out last year by Finkelhor's center found that from 2000
through 2005, the number of children ages 10 to 17 who received unwanted
solicitations online declined from 19% to 13%.

But calls to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children's hotline
have been on the rise, says president Ernie Allen. In 2005, there were 2,660
reports of online enticement of children; in 2006, there were 6,374. In the
first eight months of 2007, there were 9,533. Some of the increase can be
attributed to greater Internet use and increased awareness of the hotline,
Allen says.

He agrees that education is a key to Internet safety. But he says the
Internet does make it easier to prey on children.

"Just like in the physical world, those people who seek to prey upon kids go
to where the kids are," Allen says. "We don't think the sky is falling, but
there (are) adults hiding behind the relative anonymity of the Internet to
try to achieve what they either can't achieve or can only achieve with great
risk in the physical world. America's moms and dads really need to catch
up."

Though it's good to educate children and parents about dangers, some experts
worry that the message may backfire.

"If you are petrified of predators but are not worrying about cyber-bullies,
loss of reputation, spending too much time online and the other less
frightening but more likely dangers of online use, then you are misplacing
your energy," says Larry Magid, co-director of ConnectSafely.org. "You're
petrified of something that's probably not going to happen and failing to
pay attention to the dangers that are far more likely."

Allen says messages should be balanced, but parents do need to stay aware of
the problems. "The good news is that the vast majority of America's kids are
much smarter and much more aware. Š

"But the bad news is, there are a lot of (predators) out there who are still
seeking, overwhelmingly for grooming and seduction. This remains a
significant problem."